Who cheats on their wives at corporate parties. Cheated on her husband at a corporate party - should I tell him? How to make a smart decision

It turns out that some people "go to the left" is simply in the genes! I communicate with some persons who consider it as simple as brushing their teeth. Everything happens very quickly and quite naturally. However, the vast majority of these people are men. I draw conclusions based on my environment. I know 8 guys who cheated and only 1 unfaithful lady. Scary statistic, isn't it? Unfortunately, once I also entered this very statistic. Here is my story of accidental infidelity.

It all happened pretty fast, and I didn't even have time to come to my senses! I work for a fairly large company. We had a corporate party on the occasion of the New Year. I didn't drink much, but I got a good ride. Maybe because she didn't eat enough.

In general, one guy from our IT department volunteered to see me home. I did not know him very well, but I often crossed paths with him at work. Nikita just offered to let me down.

When I didn’t feel very well on the way, Nikita stopped. I just got sick without any terrible consequences. A bit dizzy.

He helped me get out of the car and when his face was close to mine, for some reason I took him and kissed him. Some kind of playfulness suddenly played in me!

Here we are on our way to his house. Everything spun, spun, and I was enveloped in passion. I don’t know if it was hidden in me, I wanted adventure or something else, but we were just plunged into such a wave of desire.

The next morning, I realized that I had done something terrible. Various thoughts were running through my head. I didn't know what to do!

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The phone had 8 missed calls from her husband. I went to my friend and asked her to cover me. I call my husband and explain that I got drunk yesterday, and Lera took me to her home. My husband didn't suspect anything, but I... I couldn't help myself.

A week later, my conscience not only tormented me, but completely swallowed me up. I confessed my infidelity to my husband. She didn’t even make excuses that she was drunk, etc. However, I did not think that events at that moment would turn the other way!

“You know, I knew that you cheated on me. Lera told me everything. I thought you wouldn't confess. I could not confess to you at the time, but you ... You know, I cheated on you 3 times. And all 3 times with your girlfriends. One of them was Lera. It was a long time ago, but I couldn't tell you about it. Forgive me if you can.

My husband and I did not part, although for some time I lived separately from him. Now I consider my betrayal revenge. We didn’t talk about this anymore, but after my confession, he began to treat me differently.

It's like falling in love has returned. Sometimes betrayal helps to survive some "roughness" in life. But personally, I will never again dare to go to bed with another person.

My name is Anna. I'm 39 years old. I always thought that my life was more than successful. After all, I had everything a woman needs for complete happiness: a caring husband, wonderful children, a wonderful job. I recently got a promotion. I rejoiced at this event like a small child! I even went to another fun corporate party, although before I tried to avoid such events. My simple story will go about the consequences of that evening ...

On that day, the husband and children went to visit his elderly father, with an overnight stay. I did not keep them company, as I firmly decided to go to that ill-fated corporate party. After all, it was there that they promised to announce my imminent promotion. I am completely indifferent to alcohol. But that evening I allowed myself too much ...

I “woke up” in the morning: at home. A pleasant male voice pulled me out of a drunken oblivion.

— Good morning, dear!

— Maxim… What are you doing here?

“It’s strange to hear such words from a woman with whom I recently spent a passionate night!

- What?! Excuse me, please, but I don't remember anything! You'd better leave now!

Eight months later, I was promoted to another city. I tried not to remember this ridiculous story of “close acquaintance” with a young colleague Maxim. But once we had a not too pleasant conversation in my office.

- Hello, sunshine!

- Maxim, what do you want? I'm not interested in you at all as a man!

“Oh, I really, really need you, you old slut!” No, my fish, everything is extremely simple here! I have a business proposal for you. You're going to a promotion in another city, right?

— Yes, but how do you know?

“It’s an unknown secret to me, too!” The whole company already knows! So - you should recommend me to the boss for your place!

- How is it? Are you out of your mind?

- Yes. If you don't do it my way, the photography chief will get where you hug me! Such cute pictures! From clothes on you only lacy stockings! And your promotion "will be covered with a copper basin"! Our boss is a man of strict convictions.

Thank God, the chief listened to my opinion, and Maxim sat down in my former chair. And I quickly got used to the new job, eventually got used to a strange city. I began to treat my husband much more attentively and warmer: I realized that I really value his love.

By the way, at subsequent corporate parties, I no longer drank more than one glass of weak wine. Indeed, in a drunken stupor, not even worthy of attention, a vile man sometimes looks attractive and desirable!

Women's infidelity during holidays and corporate parties is a frequent phenomenon.

And the point is not even the total promiscuity of wives, but the fact that alcohol, loud music, ambiguous competitions at such events create a favorable environment for even the most modest and faithful spouses to start flirting and flirting recklessly.

The first thought that arises in the head of a husband after such an accidental betrayal is WHY? Of course, there is no single answer for all situations, but one thing is for sure - both spouses are always to blame for infidelity. So the family is not as smooth as it seemed at first glance. And it is important to understand the reason for the wife's act in order to prevent the family from falling apart completely.

I remembered one real story, in which the husband forgave his wife after such a ridiculous betrayal at a corporate party. But this decision was very difficult for him. Yes, and he did not know for sure whether there is a chance to return his wife and happiness to the family.

My neighbor Vitaly has been a happy family man for 15 years. And his wife is a serious woman, she always worked hard and took care of her family regularly. But one pre-holiday evening almost broke their whole life, which Vitaly told me about once, when the passions subsided.

My wife betrayed me on the eve of March 8...

When my Tamara was hired by a large consulting agency as a chief accountant, at first she could not believe her luck. This is a solid increase in salary, and status, and a comfortable old age, if you are lucky to work there for 10 years.

Corporate events at a prestigious job happened infrequently, but on a grand scale. And it was necessary to visit them without fail, especially for employees in leadership positions. If you want to move up the career ladder or not lose your “warm” place, be kind enough to come and prove your devotion to the team.

He was always calm for his wife: she drank a little at feasts, came home on time, did not flirt with anyone. But this time something went wrong. My wife returned home late, drunk, all teary-eyed, her eyes guilty. I thought that I had quarreled with someone, I began to ask questions. Here Tamara burst into tears at all and laid out right from the threshold that the general himself began to look after her at the party, then volunteered to give her a ride home. And in the car he became completely bolder, began to confess his love, pester, well, she could not stand it ...

The wife wove something else for a long time aboutmiddle age crisishow she is afraid of growing old and becoming ugly, faded, unloved. And I stupidly looked out the window and hardly distinguished the words. There was a deafening ringing in my ears, and unbearable pain pierced my head every moment. I wanted to get up and hit her - if only this cruel, useless confession would stop.

After all, I loved her so much and always trusted her. Never let me doubt that I can betray or leave her in old age. Why did she betray?

Of course, I didn't beat her then. He just left home and wandered the streets for a long time. Returned after midnight and fell asleep on the sofa in the living room. We've been living like this for a month now - in different rooms, I almost do not communicate with her, as strangers have become. She is suffering and it is clear that she wants to make amends. But I don’t know how to forgive betrayal and let me in again after the tub of mud that poured out on me that ill-fated evening before March 8 ...

How to forgive the betrayal of his wife?

Let me tell you straight away: recovering from such a shock is not easy. And it is not always possible to do it on your own. One seeks the truth in wine, the other begins to take revenge with the first girlfriend who comes to hand.

But if it is about saving the family, and not about how to annoy each other more, all these methods will not work. If you want to know for sure how to forgive betrayal the advice of a psychologist from a man with many years of experience in the field of relationships can not only get you out of depression and resentment towards your spouse, but also suggest a way out of a difficult family situation.

Of course, Vitaly could not leave his wife. But for a long time he suffered from her betrayal and did not know how to live on. And in order to at least somehow help him, I shared a recording with a video lecture. After a couple of weeks, the neighbor's attitude towards his wife noticeably warmed up, and a month later they went to the sea together for a week to recover a little and try from scratch: to live, trust, love each other and never betray.

We agreed that he would ring in half an hour and I would jump up and pick him up with a friend, and take them home. I called around 11 pm, they say everything ends. Well, I got ready, cleared the snow from the car, and by half past eleven I was waiting for him outside the restaurant, sitting in the car and listening to music.
There are four of them - three guys and a girl. Everyone is very tipsy, in red hats, jackets wide open. And I look closely, and the girl seems to be familiar ...
Picture to draw attention. TYTS.

I'm sitting, so I'm looking at the girl. And she stands with the guy kissing. It's delicious, it's enviable. And then she turns to face the car and I understand that I know her for sure. Her name is Vika (name changed), and she is the wife of my longtime and not close friend Oleg (name changed). They have been married for 5-7 years, they have a cute daughter, a dog and a parrot. Family, car, cottage. All things.

And here she stands and kisses with some type. Moreover, we saw each other for the last time a very long time ago, and since that time I have changed decently, grew a beard, and generally matured.
Well, I think it's okay. If he recognizes me, then I will think what to say according to the situation. Solve problems as they come, so to speak. If he doesn't know, I won't identify myself. Driver and Driver.

Lech climbs into the front passenger seat. The rest of the cheerful company climbs into the back. Hello. Vika doesn't recognize me. I'm half a turn, and she is passionate about the satellite. I don't really turn around.
- Dimas, shall we bring the guys? It's close here. Lech starts talking.
- Yes, not a question - I answer. - Of course we will. Say the address.

I turn up the music a little louder. I'm touching. The snow is falling. The company behind is discussing the corporate party and the future continuation of the banquet. They have whiskey and champagne with them. Drive really close. 15 minutes later we drive up to the address. House with enclosed yard. Marked tracks. Blizzard.
The company from behind stormily thanks and falls out into the street to smoke with Lekha. I say goodbye and stay in the car, look at Vika in short dress. A swarm of thoughts in my head. "To call or not to call Oleg?" And then I realize that I do not have his number. It's left on an old pipe that was sunk while fishing, and maybe some catfish is playing it in Soccer now.
Lech jumps into the car.

What are you, puffed up? he asks me.
- Yes, I'm tired of something - I dismiss. - Let's go already.

On the way, I carefully ask him about Vika. I find out that I have never been seen in anything like this before, but here she says how the roof was torn off. She began to hang herself on the guy.

But, they are for a couple of hours - says Lech. -Drink clean. And home. So it's unlikely that the guy will burn out.
And then meaningfully adds the word "Although ..."

I take him to the store near his house, we say goodbye. And I'm going home. At home, I find Oleg's phone number in my notebook.

Now I'm thinking, is it worth calling or not?
First, maybe it's just kissing. And nothing more. And, as such, there was no betrayal.

Secondly, if it was a friend, or at least a close acquaintance, I would say. I know more about Oleg business area and quite heady. Been to the same company several times.

And thirdly, I don't want to spoil New Year in their family and possibly cause them to break up.

What do you think? Call or not? What do you say?
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One Friday, my wife suggested that I go to a nightclub to dance. I was wildly tired at work and did not want to go anywhere. The grandmother met her daughter after school and left her to spend the night. So I suggested that Natalia go with her friends. She phoned the girls and arranged for two to meet outside the nightclub at 10 pm. She left by taxi, and after standing for a while at the window, I lay down on the sofa and began to click TV channels in search of something interesting. There was a snooker tournament on the sports channel and I did not notice how I dozed off. Then I will tell you what Natalia told me when she returned from the club.

In the lobby of the club, she met with her friends and all together they went to the bar. At first we sat there for a bit, chatted, drank a glass of champagne and then went to the dance floor. After dancing for a while, they returned to the table at the bar and ordered more champagne and coffee. Slow music played on the dance floor, the girls casually chatted about all sorts of nonsense. Suddenly, a handsome guy of about 25-30 years old came up to their table and invited Natalia to a slow dance. She immediately agreed (as she later explained, because I did not agree to go, she wanted to enjoy a slow dance with a man) despite the surprised looks of her friends (it is worth saying that Natalya does not like to dance with strangers). The guy moved very well, which my wife liked, he smelled of an expensive fragrance, although he was dressed quite simply. Well, how else can you say about jeans and a turtleneck. Alex - introduced himself as a guy. Well, why not, Natalya thought, challenging herself, and they started a conversation. She specifically flirted, deprived of her husband's attention that evening.

“And you can join your company,” said the cavalier.

“Of course,” my wife said.

Alexei was with two friends and after seeing Natalia to the table where the girlfriends were sitting, he left. After some time, he returned with them carrying a tray with a mountain of all kinds of sweets, champagne and expensive wine. The guys were called Nikolai and Vitaly. They, like Alexei, were tall and handsome. The guys made a good impression on the girls, they were gallant, interesting in communication, their jokes were not vulgar, they were quite erudite. Conversation, champagne and wine were replaced by fast and slow dances, everyone was pleased with the well-established rest in the club. Alexei apparently liked Natalia very much, and he constantly looked after her, poured wine, danced all the slow dances with her.

During the dances, Alexei pressed Natalya more and more tightly to him, so that she felt how tense his penis was. He leaned into her ear and whispered beautiful words of love to her. Hops turned her head and during one of the slow ones they merged in a passionate kiss. Coming to her senses, Natalya tried to move away from her partner and whispered that she couldn’t do it in plain sight, that she was married, that her friends could see or someone she knew, but she really liked it. Alexei offered to drive to him. Blood rushed to his head and pounded in his temples at such an offer. She was confused but for some reason agreed, alcohol dulled the sense of loyalty. She understood that he did not put it out for kisses at all, and certainly not for tea with sweets. Referring to a headache and saying goodbye to her friends, saying that she would take a taxi, Natalya went down to the wardrobe where Alex was already waiting for her.

It was about three in the morning when they came to him. It was a two-room apartment in a residential area. But what. His bachelor's dwelling struck with luxurious furniture, order and lack of superfluous. Everything was nice and comfortable. Natalya went into the room and looked around. After some time, Alexey came into the room and put a tray of wine and fruit on the coffee table, turned on pleasant quiet music, poured the drink into glasses and offered to drink. After drinking, they again merged in a passionate kiss. Natalia said that if she did not return home before eight in the morning there could be problems at home. Alexei leaned over and whispered in his ear.

Don't worry, you'll be home at eight.

Passion seized them, they hugged, kissed. Alexey kissed her on the neck, stroked her back, arms, hugged her. Gradually, the hands descended on the ass and strongly but at the same time, carefully and gently, the fingers clasped her. Then he took off her T-shirt in one motion and his hands went over her breasts over her lacy bra, but they stayed there for a long time. The clasp was in front and the bra slid to the floor. She, in turn, pulled off his turtleneck and snuggled against his chest. He unbuttoned her jeans, and she and they almost simultaneously fell to his feet. The bump on the man's swimming trunks struck Natalya. Alexey kissed her all over - lips, neck, arms, chest, stomach, gradually descending lower and lower to a small triangle of lace thongs. Natalya's legs became wadded and she sat down on the couch. This allowed Alexei to take off her panties and press his lips to her neatly shaved slit.

He worked very skillfully with his tongue, caressing her clitoris, sucking in the external small labia, then penetrating into her. Before such a pressure, the wife could not resist for a long time and, arching her back, she began to violently finish. Alexey stopped caressing and watched the woman come to her senses. Then he took her in his arms and carried her into the bedroom and laid her on a huge bed. This is the bed Natalya thought to herself. He stood near the bed and looked at her, she recovered from the pleasure she had received and looked around, squatted on the bed and stretched out her hands to his swimming trunks. Pulled them down. What was revealed to her gaze caused slight confusion. It was a member of a little more than twenty centimeters in length and six centimeters in width, crowned with a rather large head. He was in full combat readiness. Natalya, recovering from the shock, took his hand and gently stroked it, then the testicles, which were clean-shaven. She gently brought her lips to his and kissed him.

Then she took it in her mouth and began to suck it, gently shaking her head back and forth. This gave the partner pleasure, he groaned, and then offered to change position. He lay down on the bed, and my wife settled down between his legs and sucked his dignity, looking into his eyes, smacking and swallowing as much as possible. Her hair was gently touched by a hand. She shuddered, because Alexei's arms were thrown behind his head, and turned around sharply. She saw Alexei's friends who were with him in the club. Nikolai and Vitaly were completely naked and their excited members stood at attention. Their members were smaller but the same commanded respect. Vitaly, and it was he who stroked Natalya on the head, said

- don't worry, everything will be fine and beautiful

- Natalya should be at home at eight - said Alexei

“Well, then let’s not waste time,” Vitaly answered and smiled, “let’s do something pleasant, let’s indulge in passion.”

Natalya sat completely naked in the middle of a huge bed between Alexei's legs, two more young and handsome men. Thoughts raced through my head at breakneck speed. So they agreed on this in advance, Natalya thought, they just needed a woman, one woman who would agree to go with one of them, and the rest would join. So she was trapped. But no, they are not set up like rapists, they don’t look like them, they want to have fun, well, there’s nowhere to go - my wife thought - you have to enjoy the same, because that’s what she wanted when she went with by a stranger to his house.

Men bent over her and three pairs of hands began to stroke and caress her body, men's lips began to cover her body with hot kisses. She ran. I got dizzy. She merged in a kiss with one partner, then with another, then with a third. Strong hands gently laid her on her back and her face turned out to be Vitaly's cock. Natalya without hesitation took him in her mouth and began to suck, jerking with one hand. Nikolai bent over her and kissed her nipples, massaging her breasts with his hands. Alexei parted her slender legs and gently touched his penis to her vagina, which was very wet from female juices. Feeling a member in front of her cave, she stretched out her hands and parted her genital lips, as if inviting to come in.

The man began to smoothly and carefully immerse his penis in the cherished bosom. Natalya massaged her clitoris with her hands while not ceasing to suck Vitaly's cock. When the member plunged to the end, he just got to the uterus. The woman let out a groan and arched her back. Alexey began to have Natalya with sweeping pitchings for the entire length of his gun. Vitaly and Nikolai switched places. Alexey pumped her like that for about ten minutes, during which time she finished again. Then she was put on all fours and the men began to change places without giving her rest. One fucked her in the pussy, and the other two caressed her body and used her mouth. This went on for about half an hour. During this time, she finished a couple more times. During the last orgasm, her legs buckled and she collapsed on her stomach on the bed in exhaustion.

Alexey lay down next to her on her back, and Vitaly and Nikolai lifted Natalya up and put her astride his protruding penis. The woman had almost no strength and she lay her chest on the man trying to catch her breath and recover. She had never had such pleasure from sex in her life. But they didn't let her come to her senses. Nikolai leaned over and whispered in his ear - Have you ever had anal sex? She couldn't say anything and just nodded in satisfaction. Immediately, her second hole was touched by his penis, already abundantly lubricated by her own vaginal discharge. He pressed hard and his cock began to slowly sink into his partner's ass. Natalia had experience in anal sex, which allowed her to let the penis in herself almost painlessly. A new feeling came over her. Two members were in it and began to move rhythmically. They were separated only by a thin partition, and she felt it. And she definitely liked it. She would have moaned with pleasure very much but her mouth was filled with the cock of the third man. The real carousel has begun. The men were constantly changing places. All her holes were filled with cocks that were constantly moving. Orgasm after orgasm hit her. The realization came to Natalya's head that she this moment not a wife, not a mother, she is a body, a machine to satisfy these three men, but at that moment it didn’t matter to her, she wanted and received hitherto unheard of pleasure from this unrestrained sex. She remembers how long this race lasted. She had, had and had.

Finally, the men began together, almost simultaneously, to finish. Alex discharged into her vagina. His hot sperm beat with a strong jet, there was a lot of it, he was shaken by an orgasm for a long time. Nikolai finished in the ass, filling it to the brim. Vitaly finished in her mouth. She swallowed as much as she could, but not all. Sperm flowed from her lips, chin. In addition, Vitaly clearly did not want the girl to choke and, freeing her mouth from the penis, released several jets of sperm into Natalya's face, hitting her hair, cheeks, and eyes. She didn't care who finished it where, she was at the pinnacle of bliss. She fell onto the bed and passed out immediately.

How much she was to forget Natalya does not know. She was awakened by the voice of Alexei - the sun, it's time for you to go. Waking up, she looked at the clock. It was about seven o'clock in the morning. Natalya lay alone in the middle of the bed, covered with a warm blanket. Pulling back the covers, she looked down at herself. From both of her holes, a large amount of sperm flowed onto the sheet, her hair stuck together, her skin was drawn from the dried male seed. You still have time to take a shower," Alexei said, handing her a terry bathrobe and a towel. There was no one else in the apartment except her and Alexei. She quickly took a shower, dried her hair, dressed and went into the room.

- Coffee? the young man asked.

Natalia nodded in the affirmative.

Did you like it? he asked again.

She nodded again.

Will we meet again?

No, Natalya said without hesitation. At the moment, she already thought that there would be a conversation at home, and could not decide how to behave better.

Alexey called a taxi, went downstairs with her, gave money to the taxi driver and asked to take the woman wherever she asked.

She arrived at home just before eight o'clock. I slept in the big room on the couch in front of the TV. She did not wake me up, but only turned off the TV, went into the bedroom, wrapped herself in a blanket and fell asleep. I woke up around eleven. Going into the bedroom, he saw his sleeping wife and dived under the covers to her. Gently, so as not to wake her, I stroked her back. My hand gently descended lower and lower to the cherished hole. Putting my hand between Natalia's legs, I felt that she was more than wet there. Gently pulled out his hand and realized that it was someone's sperm. Putting my hand between her legs again, I put my finger into her vagina, He just failed so it was open, pointing my finger at the ass, I felt the same. The ass was greatly stretched and the same sperm oozed from it. I could not believe it. No matter how I tried to act carefully, all the same, I woke up my missus until now.

She opened her eyes, wrapped her arms and legs around me and gently whispered - dear, I love you more than anyone in the world, forgive me, I really need to tell you something - and kissed me with a deep kiss. During the kiss, I felt the taste of sperm in my wife's mouth. I was shocked. I pulled myself together and tried to calmly listen to her story without making hasty conclusions, asking only that she be absolutely honest with me. She spoke in detail about everything that had happened to her that night. By the end of the story, I was not at all angry with her and only said - the main thing is that you were very pleased and you got new unforgettable impressions. During the story, I was very excited and as soon as she finished we had rough sex. This incident made us even closer, we became even more open to each other. So far, there have been no more betrayals either on her part or on mine, and now we visit nightclubs only together.