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Everyone at least a few times in their life doubted how to pronounce the word correctly, where to put the stress, because the Russian language is one of the most difficult languages.
Difficulties arise for several reasons.

Not in Russian general rule preservation of stress, it can stand in any part of the word, unlike, for example, the French language, where the stress is always placed on the last syllable.

Emphasis plays a semantic role. Depending on the stress, the meaning of the word changes, this can be observed in homonym words, or rather, in homographs (words that are spelled the same, but sound differently): a rit and steam and th, a tlas and atl a s, cr e dit and credit and t.

Our language has a lot foreign words borrowed from other languages. This, on the one hand, enriches the language, and, on the other hand, creates difficulties in pronunciation and writing. Especially often, difficulties arise with the letter “e”: it is written “e”, and pronounced “e” (parterre, sex, dash).

There are many territorial varieties of the Russian language - dialects - which also affect pronunciation. So, in St. Petersburg and in Moscow, meat cooked on a spit will be called differently: shawarma and shawarma.

Communication with Slavic "brothers" has a huge impact on the native speakers of the Russian language. Even television announcers began to pronounce many words in the Ukrainian manner, thereby allowing speech errors. Most often I hear such errors in the stress of verbs: n a chala instead of beginnings a, P about nyala instead understood a etc.

But despite the many factors that negatively affect the language, one must strive to speak correctly, since speech is the hallmark of every person. By the way a person pronounces words, you can tell a lot about his origin, upbringing, education. And if the native speakers, those for whom Russian is their native language, do not treat it with care, then who will save the language?

Let's talk right!

With this article, I open a series of texts on correct pronunciation.

For starters, here's a set of words that cause difficulty in stress.

One of the most common mistakes is the stress in past tense verbs of the feminine gender (I wrote about this already above, but I will repeat it):

Wrong: began, understood, took, took, created.
Correctly: began BUT, understood BUT, took BUT, took BUT etc. But in the masculine: n BUT chal, p O nyal, with O building

It is considered bad manners to say they are calling, calling. Correct: call And th, ringing And t, ringing I t.

You can buy wed E dstva and enjoy wed E by means, but not by means.

Child in childhood need balls BUT th.

Ukrainian is spoken in Kiev And nsky language.

The confectionery sells t O mouths, and the data is entered into the catalog O G.

And what the key is hung on is called keychain, not a key fob.

And 40 more words:

Tell us about the words that cause you difficulty in pronunciation. Maybe some words once or now surprised you with their stress?

OVERCOME A RUNNY NOSE? HOW TO HELP YOURSELF FOLK METHODS Types of runny nose: 1. Acute rhinitis, common runny nose with acute respiratory infections. 2. Allergic rhinitis, which can also be alleviated with the help of folk remedies 3. Sinusitis - inflammation of the paranasal sinuses, which in 80% of cases occurs after a runny nose, colds, as a complication after SARS. Treatment of a runny nose with folk remedies: Salt rinsing of the nose for the treatment and prevention of a runny nose. Salt rinsing of the nose will help get rid of chronic rhinitis. Buy a special device for this at the pharmacy. Salt and rinse bottle included. A very good tool. Lemon for colds. Very effective at the first symptoms of the disease. It is necessary to mix lemon juice in half with water and draw it into the nose, immediately blowing it back out. You will have to do this several times, overcoming discomfort, and then immediately dilute it in half a glass of warm boiled water half a teaspoon of table salt, soak a cotton swab in this solution and insert it alternately into each nostril. Lemon copes with microbes, and salt relieves swelling of the nasal mucosa well. If this unpleasant procedure is done several times during the day, the runny nose will pass very quickly. And, of course, in addition, you can folk way breathe over grated onion or garlic. This is especially helpful during a flu epidemic. Editor's note: I did it myself. The most important thing is to do this as soon as you feel that your nose is stuffy. I just put lemon juice in my nose and that's it. No runny nose. But this method is not suitable for children, it is very painful from a lemon in the nose. Beetroot will stop the flow from the nose. From a piece of beet you need to squeeze a little juice, about 3 tablespoons add 1 teaspoon of natural honey. Stir very well to dissolve the honey. That's all, the drops are ready. Bury them a few drops in each nostril 4 times a day. Runny nose passes quickly. But keep in mind: this remedy is quite tart and potent. This medicine takes some getting used to. Drip a little, and if you feel that everything is fine, then increase the dose. Iodine for colds. At night, smear your feet with iodine. Put on woolen socks and go to bed. A few treatments and a runny nose will pass Editor's note: My favorite recipe for treating a runny nose in children. Only I still lubricate the wings of the nose for the patient. And on the forehead, above the eyebrows, I draw a strip 1 cm thick. In the morning, the flow from the nose stops. The condition is improving. Onions for colds. Peel the bulb, remove the transparent film and insert into the nostrils, not deep. Change film every 2 hours. Do this for 2 days. You don't need to put anything on at night. The runny nose will definitely pass. Garlic phytoncides will relieve nasal congestion. Fill a jar with a tight-fitting lid with finely chopped garlic. The essence of treatment is to inhale therapeutic vapors. Substituting a vial to one nostril, close the other with your finger and slowly inhale deeply, but carefully so as not to inadvertently draw in the contents. And so, in turn, gradually increasing the time of the procedure. At first, such sessions should be repeated 3-4 times during each hour, then the intensity can be reduced to 1-2 times per hour. As a rule, the runny nose stops by the end of the day, the temperature subsides. The next day, inhalation of garlic smell for prevention, repeat several times. This recipe is good at the first sign of a runny nose. Inhalations from the common cold. Grate the horseradish, put it in a jar and close the lid tightly. After 15 min. open, inhale through your mouth more fully, hold your breath for 3 seconds and exhale through your nose. Repeat as many times as you can without effort. After such inhalations, no runny nose or sinusitis is terrible for you. Oil for rhinitis. We take 50 ml vegetable oil , pour into some glassware that can be put in a water bath. We keep the oil in a boiling water bath for 40 minutes. During this time, the oil should lose all harmful substances. Let the oil cool after 40 minutes. And we ourselves take 4 cloves of garlic and a quarter of an onion head. Grind garlic and onion and pour this mixture with chilled vegetable oil. Let it infuse for two hours. All the beneficial qualities of onions and garlic will pass into the oil. Then just strain the oil and lubricate the mucous membranes in the nose with it. Do this as needed when the nose stops breathing. You will see the effect immediately. It will become easier to breathe, the congestion will pass, the snot will gradually stop flowing. Editor's review: Thanks to this recipe, in 5 days I cured a child's runny nose, which did not go away for a month. Ointment for colds. This ointment is great for colds. Take 0.5 tbsp. honey and vegetable oil, 2 tablets of mummy and streptocide, 2 tbsp. Kalanchoe juice (or aloe), 2 g of propolis and beeswax (half a matchbox). Heat oil, wax and honey, stirring constantly over low heat. When the wax melts, remove from heat. In a cup, grind streptocide tablets, propolis and mummy into powder, then pour it all with a warm mixture. At the end, add aloe juice. Mix everything well. Store the ointment in the refrigerator. Lubricate the nose 2-3 times a day and the chest at night (if you have a cough), warming with a scarf. The nose immediately begins to breathe and the cough does not torment at night. St. John's wort oil for the common cold. Prepare St. John's wort oil. Pour 20-30 g of fresh crushed St. John's wort flowers with 1 glass of refined vegetable oil. Infuse for 3 weeks in a dark place, shaking occasionally. Then strain through several layers of gauze. The oil must be stored in the refrigerator. Bury warm St. John's wort oil in the nose 3-5 drops several times a day. Burdock root is an excellent remedy for runny nose and sinusitis. In the fall, before frost, dig up the burdock root, clean it of dirt and chop (but not very finely). In a dark (brown) glass bottle, pour chopped burdock roots and pour in sunflower oil (only the one with a smell). Close it all tightly with a cork. Put the bottle in a dark place to infuse (about 2 weeks). Shake the mixture well before each use. Take cotton turundas, moisten with this mixture and insert into each nostril for 10-15 minutes. The procedure can be repeated up to five times a day. Even after the first procedure, you will notice an improvement in your condition. Runny nose, sinusitis are cured. Powder from lilies of the valley for a cold. Prepare a very simple cure for a cold from lily of the valley flowers. It is necessary to dry the flowers and shoots of lilies of the valley, then finely crush. Place in a small glass jar, close the lid. Store in a dark place. Use as a snuff for a cold. Everything is very simple and effective from the common cold. Honey with aloe juice will help cure a runny nose in a child. In a dry teaspoon, collect a third of honey and squeeze aloe juice there drop by drop for each full year of the child (3 years - 3 drops, etc.). Gently stir, holding over heat until the liquid becomes homogeneous. The cooled medicine should be instilled into the child 2-3 drops in each nostril several times a day. Drip only freshly prepared potion. This is a wonderful "children's" remedy for the common cold. How to cure a runny nose in five minutes There are few people who would consider a runny nose a serious illness, but it poisons the lives of almost everyone. To help the body cope with malaise, to activate internal forces to fight a runny nose, you can use the massage of the following points on the face: Point number 1. If you continue the line of the eyebrows, then this point will be at the intersection with the line of the bridge of the nose. Point number 2. These symmetrical points are located on both sides of the face. Slightly noticeable depressions two centimeters from the outer edge of the eyebrow. They must be pressed at the same time. Point number 3. Two symmetrical points at the base of the nose, near the edge of the eye sockets. Massage at the same time.

What words need to be spoken so as not to get sick. The same thought expressed different ways, can both support a person in difficult times, and hurt to the core. The daily use of kind words like "love" and "peace" affects our thinking. If you choose positive words, it will be easier for you to accept changes in your life, achieve your goals and stay in a good mood. But the use of negative, aggressive words causes a reaction similar to the body's response to fear and danger, which increases the level of cortisol and other stress hormones in the blood. Of course, in situations where we are forced to protect ourselves and our loved ones, the release of these hormones is only beneficial. But often such stress is not needed by the body. Do you know what happens when you run the same unpleasant thought over and over in your head and gradually it obscures everything around you? It happened to us too. This “rewinding” stimulates the brain center responsible for fear. The body receives a signal: "I'm in danger, it's time to worry and worry." That is why bad thoughts can make you sick. But good, positive thoughts can not only please, but also heal. The impact of pleasant thoughts is amazing: we physically begin to feel better about ourselves and the world around us. Start small. Try to consume different words and watch your reaction. If you feel calmer, lighter in your soul, and the world seems brighter, you are on the right track.

HOW TO RESTORE THE THYROID. Mix one glass of ground buckwheat, minced walnuts and honey in an enameled (absolutely clean) bowl and transfer to a glass jar. Once a week for the whole day, eat this composition without taking any other food except water. Do this six times, i.e. six weeks. Then repeat the treatment after a month. Already after the first course, the goiter will decrease, and after the second course, the disease will leave you. Get checked for ultrasound: the thyroid gland will be normal.

MILK THISTLE - CURES EVERYTHING! A decoction of milk thistle helps with radiculitis, arthritis, convulsions, urinary retention, diseases of the liver, spleen, cholelithiasis, inflammation of the biliary tract, cholecystitis, hepatitis, colitis, hemorrhoids, allergic skin diseases, baldness, psoriasis, acne, etc. 1. For diseases of the liver, gastrointestinal tract, acne. 1 st. spoon pour 200 ml hot water and boil in a closed enamel pan in a water bath for 30 minutes. The hot broth is filtered through 3 layers of gauze and topped up with boiling water to 200 ml. Drink 3 times a day for 1 tbsp. spoon for 20 minutes. before meals. 2. With hepatitis. Pour 30 grams of crushed milk thistle seeds with 500 ml of water, boil over low heat until 1/2 of the liquid has evaporated, leave for 10 minutes. and strain. Take 1 tbsp. spoon every hour from 8 to 20 hours. The course of treatment is 21 days, 2 weeks off, and drink again for 21 days. 3. To remove toxic substances and prevent liver damage. Decoction of herbs with roots: 2 tbsp. l. crushed raw materials pour 0.5 liters of boiling water, insist overnight. Drink 3/4 cup 3 times a day. - In case of poisoning. 1 st. spoon 3-5 times a day, at regular intervals. Course of treatment: until the symptoms are completely eliminated. - During radiation and chemotherapy. 1 dessert. spoon 4 times a day, at regular intervals. The course of treatment: the time of radiation and chemotherapy, then 1 teaspoon 4 times a day at regular intervals of 20-25 days. 4. Milk thistle seed tea. 1 teaspoon of seeds is poured into 250 ml of boiling water, insisted for 10-20 minutes, filtered. Drink hot one cup in the morning on an empty stomach, half an hour before lunch and in the evening, before going to bed. Digestion improves, the liver is cleansed, mood improves. 5. Milk thistle seed oil. Milk thistle seeds (for 0.5 l of vegetable oil 5-6 teaspoons of seeds) boil with olive oil in a water bath for 10-15 minutes, strain, and the oil is ready. It is taken 3 teaspoons a day, half an hour before meals for a month with diseases of the liver, stomach ( peptic ulcer), heart, kidney, skin (burns, ulcers, wounds), female diseases, dilated veins, hemorrhoids, inflammation, stomatitis, runny nose, sore throat. Depending on the disease, the oil is taken orally or rubbed into the skin. Before using any drug, remedy or method, be sure to consult your doctor!

Dandelion Liver Cleanse If you want to help your liver, every spring, as soon as they appear yellow flowers dandelion, conduct a 2-week course of cleansing the liver and bile ducts. Liver Cleanse: Collect dandelion flowers, let them lie down for a day and tether a little. Brew 2 tbsp. flowers in 0.5 l of boiling water, let it brew a little, strain and drink 100 g of infusion 4 times a day 1 hour before meals. This simple method of liver cleansing produces wonderful results. Dandelion root is indispensable in the treatment of cirrhosis of the liver. In spring and summer, it must be rubbed raw and eaten. And the rest of the time - an infusion of dry root - 1 tbsp. pour a glass of boiling water, wrap, let cool. It is necessary to use an infusion of dandelion root 3 times a day before meals for 10 g. Dandelion juice is one of the most valuable tonic. You can chop the leaves and dandelion root, squeeze the juice, dilute 1 tsp. juice with water and drink fresh in diseases of the liver and gallbladder. For pain in the liver, the dose can be increased to 2 tbsp. 2 times a day one hour before meals. Dandelion flowers help cleanse the liver. 1 tbsp dry flowers pour a glass of boiling water, insist until it cools down, take 0.3 cups 3 times a day. If a glass of dandelion flower infusion is divided into 4 parts and taken during the day, this dose will help with diseases of the liver and gallbladder.

Homemade balm “Grow braid to the waist” A very effective recipe, after applying which healthy hair appears in place of rare areas! You can also scent your homemade balm at your discretion using your favorite essential oils. Someone is not indifferent to the aroma of citrus fruits, someone is madly in love with the smell of pine needles, and someone will prefer fresh mint or exquisite cinnamon. BALM RECIPE 1/2 cup yogurt, 1 egg, 1 teaspoon cocoa, Mix everything and spread on the head. If it dries out a little, apply more. And so on, until the entire portion is finished. Tie with a film and wrap your head for 20-25 minutes. Wash your hair with baby shampoo. Rinse with nettle decoction. Do it often (2-3 times a week) for at least 2-3 months. Overgrows bald spots, restores vibrant healthy hair, if applied to healthy hair, makes it much thicker!

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Himself Grammar Nazi

In order to be sure that you are right and bring the light of knowledge and culture to the masses, you will have to start with yourself - to clean up the "flaws" of your own speech. Our editorial staff decided first of all to take on the stresses, and we got a kind of rating of 30 words with which “shock” difficulties most often arise. Here it is in alphabetical order and with a hint for the correct accent:

indulge, indulge, indulge

bartender

barrel

water pipeline, gas pipeline, garbage pipeline, oil pipeline, but: electrical wire

contract (and contracts)

blinds

enviably

catalog

quarter

more beautiful

culinary and culinary ( both options are equal)

marketing

masterful

extended

newborn

security

ease

uncork

loop (loop - Appropriate in everyday speech)

call, call, call

pullover

beet

dancer, dancer

cottage cheese and cottage cheese ( both options are equal)

tiramisu

cakes

immediately

shoe

phenomenon

scoop

What is written in pen...

The insidiousness of all the rules and lists is that they do not linger in the head: read - forgot. There are several ways to remember useful information, in our case - words with the correct stresses.

#sing now. A difficult word for you needs to be said out loud loudly, clearly, several times (you can also sing) and ... in front of witnesses. Let friends or colleagues support you and join your shock flash mob with their problematic words (“Venice is more beautiful than Paris, more beautiful, more beautiful, more beautiful than Paris”, “they call me, they call me”, “my boyfriend is a barmen, barmen, barmen”). This is our psychology: what we do not alone is better remembered.

#wonderful moment. For those who have a developed imagination, it is easiest to involve associations and images associated with it in memorizing any information. Here, for example, is a healthy beetroot vegetable, and its ruddy grandmother Fyokla sells it. And a great marketing specialist knows everything about how to keep the brand!

#graphomania. Remember how at school, studying foreign language, we made up dialogues and stories with new words, picked up rhymes for them or came up with funny poems? The principle also works for the native great and mighty, you just need to give free rein to your imagination! A lot of ready-made cheat sheets are circulating on the Internet, take note: “We ate cakes for a long time - the shorts didn’t fit”, “You don’t bring us curtains, we will hang blinds”, “Phenomen calls on Wednesdays, having accepted an agreement for years”, “The ringer is calling, they are calling in a bell, so that you can remember correctly!

And, of course, dictionaries and reference books will always help out: a spelling, spelling dictionary (translated from ancient Greek, “orthoepy” means correct pronunciation), a dictionary of stresses. Online resources will not let you down either: Gramota.ru portals (be sure to check out the “Memory” section) and gramma.ru, Yandex.Dictionaries, orfogrammka.ru website, which, unlike print publications, are always at hand thanks to the ubiquitous Internet. Let's talk nice!

Since ancient times, special properties have been attributed to mirrors. Every day we approach the mirror with a different mood. To attract love and good luck, it is important to know what words to say in front of a mirror.

Since ancient times, people have attributed inexplicable properties to the mirror and the reflection in it. Many ancient legends are associated with the mirror. It also appears in many folk beliefs. In the end, this energetically powerful object is in everyone's house and interacts with a person daily.

There are words that should never be spoken in front of a mirror. After all, the words and phrases uttered by you when looking at your reflection should carry positive and faith in the best. All the examples of words that the experts of the site site have collected in this article are a kind of foundation that makes up happiness. If you believe this, you will be surprised at how much your life will change.

10 words that will make you love yourself

Of course, the most important rule is that you should never scold yourself in the reflection and do not use words that carry negativity in front of the mirror. Even if you are not satisfied with something in yourself or in your life, forget about it, look at your reflection and confidently and loudly pronounce phrases in which the following words must be present:

• the beauty;
• health;
• happiness;
• love;
• joy;
• wealth;
• cheerfulness;
• strength;
• achievement.

How can you use these words when looking at your reflection in the mirror? Words should be pronounced looking at yourself. These affirmations are a kind of creative visualization with which you can bring into life whatever you want.

The beauty. Every person dreams of being beautiful and happy. But often, looking at yourself in the mirror, you involuntarily begin to see flaws - even those that others do not attach importance to. To love yourself, you don't have to experiment with your own. appearance Just embrace your natural beauty. Try to say:

"I am the most beautiful" or "I am beautiful and gorgeous."

Believe me, even such short phrases, spoken loudly and confidently, can materialize. And after a while you really feel beautiful. And minor flaws in appearance will become yours hallmark giving you charm.

Health. Good health is essential for every person. And the desire to be healthy is common to everyone. Repeat in front of a mirror:

"I feel great."

Soon you will notice that minor ailments have ceased to bother you, and visits to the doctor will become a rarity.

Happiness. Of course, the very concept of “happiness” is individual for each person. For someone, happiness is love, for someone it is wealth, and for someone it is the fulfillment of a cherished desire. Stand in front of a mirror and list all the things you need to be happy. And most importantly - know: how strong your desire is, the closer you are to its fulfillment.

Love. Of course, love is a necessary element of happiness, whether it is love for relatives, friends, or love for your chosen one. Someone suffers from unrequited love, others are in search of their man. Looking at your reflection, say:

"I want to love and to be loved".

Be sure: after some time you will find your mutual love.

Joy. No matter how it sounds, but many in life do not have enough joy. Bad mood, apathy, failures at work and in personal life kill the mood, and with it the joy.

"I enjoy every moment of my life."

Over time, the constant struggle with your mood will stop tormenting you, and there will be much more joyful moments in life.

Mind. If you think you don't know enough about your colleagues and friends, or if you failed to keep up a conversation one day, don't put yourself on the list of stupid people. Tell your reflection:

"My mental abilities are better than those of others."

Convince yourself of this daily, but don't forget to evolve.

Wealth. The desire to live richly and not deny yourself anything is no longer shameful for anyone. Sometimes a person tends to want what he cannot afford. It is at this moment that he thinks about his financial situation and its improvement. To do this, still standing in front of the mirror, repeat:

"I want to make a lot of money", or another option: "I want to make good money."

The repetition of this thought and the efforts made will help you achieve material stability.

Cheerfulness. Probably few of us get up in the morning with the words "I love my life and everything suits me." But if you say this simple phrase every day in front of a mirror, soon you yourself will feel love and a different attitude towards your life.

Strength. Very often a person feels powerless in relation to external problems and internal experiences. Tell yourself

"I'm not afraid of anything".

You will feel a surge of strength and be able to overcome your fears. And ill-wishers will be able to get a rebuff from you.

Achievement. The goals set must be achieved. But sometimes there is not much idea how to do it. Do not get upset and give up. Say in front of a mirror:

“I will achieve all my goals. I'm not afraid of any obstacles".

Concentrate on your goals and soon they will come true.

Mirrors have special energy properties. The 10 words discussed in this article are just a support. Do not forget that standing in front of a mirror, you are not talking to him, but to yourself. Therefore, do not be afraid and deceive yourself. Be confident in your words and speak sincerely. Follow our adviceand don't forget to press the buttons and

Throughout life path Every person has to face different challenges. It can be minor troubles at work, a quarrel with a loved one, illness or the loss of someone close. And in these difficult circumstances, it is so important to know that there is someone nearby who will not regret warm words of support. After all, one spoken word can heal a bleeding wound or, conversely, cause even more harm. Published on the web portal

Today, unfortunately, people underestimate the importance of spoken words. But it is in them that is hidden great power which is capable of both giving life to a person and taking it away. The Bible says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it shall eat of its fruit.” Prov.18:22 As you can see, the tongue has power, and despite the fact that it is a small member, but it is he who controls everything.

Why is it so important to express words of support in difficult times?

The fact is that when a person is supported and told that together they will cope with any problem, that there are those who love him and will help him next to him, then by doing this they strengthen the one who is in a difficult situation and give him strength. However, the lack of understanding and support can kill even the slightest hope that everything will be fine.

Words of support to the sick

Unfortunately, in life it also happens that illnesses come into our lives. Some of them are easily cured, others have more serious consequences, and still others lead to death. And when we learn about the illness of a person close to us, it plunges us into shock and bewilderment. However, what does the patient himself feel at this moment? Of course, he suffers more than others. Different thoughts may arise in his head, and it is at this moment that words of support to the patient can help him feel that he is not alone, and that there is still hope.

Faced with such a circumstance, everyone understands that something needs to be said, but most often people cannot find the right words, but begin to show pity. This is the last thing the patient needs. Our participation and a kind word is what the patient needs. This is what will help him not worry so much, knowing that he is still loved.

What words of support can be spoken to the patient?

1. You need to tell your loved one that you love him and no matter what happens, you will always be there.
2. Speak compliments, praise for some merit, even the most insignificant. For the patient, this merit can be a real feat.
3. You don’t need to talk about the disease itself and how shocking the news has become for you, it’s better to distract the patient with some good news or, in extreme cases, a funny anecdote.

Any sick person needs words of support and attention. This will help him recover faster and recover faster.

Condolence support words

The loss of a loved one is perhaps the greatest test for everyone. And in this difficult period, a person needs to be given help and attention so that he can go through this path and begin to live a full life again. In this case, instead of words of support, words of condolence would be appropriate. However, condolences can be different. For example, let's compare two options.

1. "My condolences! Everything will be fine!" - such support seems completely indifferent and sounds more like a formality. How can everything be good if everything is very bad?
2. Or: “Accept my sincere condolences! Know that you can always count on my help. If you need something, I'm always there!" - from such words it really becomes warmer in the soul. After all, knowing that there are people who are ready to help in any situation helps to cope with many difficulties.

So, what are the words to speak in difficult circumstances?

• First of all, these should be thoughtful words. What we say can change a person's life for better or worse. After all, every word we say will surely bear fruit.
• If a person himself is in a difficult situation, then there is no need to dwell on his condition and constantly tell everyone how bad everything is. After all, these words will bear fruit. Difficulties will be encountered more than once on our path, so we must learn to extract something positive and good even from the worst. And that's exactly what to talk about.

The Bible says, “I said, I will watch my ways, lest I sin with my tongue; I will bridle my mouth as long as the wicked is before me. Ps.38:2

Our unbridled words can be a blessing or a curse to someone. Therefore, even expressing words of support to someone in difficult times, it is worth controlling yourself. Unfortunately, very often it turns out that you wanted the best, but it turned out as always. Therefore, sometimes it is better to keep silent than to say some stupidity that hurts a person to the core.

Words of faith in difficult times

There are circumstances in which words of unbelief cannot be spoken. Understand that what we say in our life is what we have.

Jesus did just that.

One day a man approached Him, the head of the synagogue, whose daughter was dying. Imagine his grief. The girl he raised with love lies with a disease for which this man had no cure. He turned to God.

22 And behold, one of the rulers of the synagogue, named Jairus, comes, and, seeing him, falls at his feet 23 and earnestly asks him, saying: My daughter is at death; come and lay hands on her that she may be well and live. 24 Jesus went with him. A multitude of people followed Him and pressed Him.

The Lord God always answers the need of man. Jesus went after the leader of the synagogue. But an event happened on the road that made Jesus stop. Time is very precious. The daughter is dying, the head of the synagogue is terribly worried. And Jesus at this time is talking to a woman who was healed by touching Him.

35 While he was still speaking these things, they come from the ruler of the synagogue and say, Your daughter is dead; What else do you trouble the Teacher? 36 But when Jesus heard these words, he immediately said to the ruler of the synagogue, Do not be afraid, only believe. 37 And he did not allow anyone to follow him, except Peter, James and John, the brother of James.

See how important words are. The man still believed. But they came from home and said that their daughter had died. Jesus' first reaction was to say, "Don't be afraid, only believe." And the ruler of the synagogue obeyed. He did not utter a single word of disbelief in the most difficult circumstances. He did not fight in hysterics, did not shout at subordinates and did not get angry. He gave the situation to Jesus. And when Jesus said to him the words "Do not be afraid, only believe" - ​​he did it. He did not give in to fear. He submitted to faith.

38 He comes to the house of the ruler of the synagogue and sees confusion and weeping and crying loudly. 39 And he went in and said to them, Why are you troubled and weeping? the girl is not dead, but asleep. 40 And they laughed at him. But having sent them all away, He takes with Him the father and mother of the maiden and those who were with Him, and enters where the maiden was lying. 41 And taking the maiden by the hand, he said to her: “talifa kumi,” which means: maiden, I tell you, get up. 42 And the maiden immediately got up and began to walk, for she was about twelve years old. Those who saw it were astonished. 43 And He ordered them severely that no one should know about it, and told them to give her something to eat.

There are some amazing things in this story.

The way Jesus behaved.

In the East there is a profession - a mourner. At mournful events, such people are invited. But Jesus sent them out despite being laughed at. And then Jesus spoke words filled with faith and what He proclaimed happened. He didn't ask his daughter to get up. He proclaimed it "girl, I tell you, get up." And it happened.

But most of all I want to draw your attention to this man.

Indeed, the situation is terrible. A beloved child dies. Nothing can be done. Since he is the head of the synagogue, he is not a poor man, and he has tried everything he can. But nothing helped.

But notice his behavior near the Lord.

In all that time, he only spoke the words once. And they were words of faith. "come and lay hands on her so that she may be well and live." He spoke words of faith when he came to Jesus. And when it was very difficult, he just kept silent. But during all this time he never uttered a word of disbelief, a word of fear or doubt. HE did not lament: “Aaaaa, Jesus, my daughter is already dead, lying in the house. How am I going to live now? But you didn't come."

He was silent. And believed.

Sometimes faith is expressed in words. But there are times when it's hard to even say. But shut up and keep believing. And this faith materializes in the fact that you will see the result of faith.