Do you want to attract the views of the surrounding men? Become feminine and feel truly irresistible? If so, then read the advice and change yourself.
May be beautiful woman by nature, you can create a fashionable image with your own hands, but at the same time not be feminine. And it happens that outwardly not flashy lady with enviable constancy arouses male interest, and they usually say about her: "She is very feminine." 
You have to think about what is invested in this concept, how to achieve the femininity of your image, and whether this is achievable at all.
What is femininity
The very concept comes from men. It is their eyes that evaluate the image of the weak half of humanity and how close it is to the ideal.
Men see if there is tenderness, sensitivity and fragility in a woman, whether she is capable of sincerity and fidelity, how weak she is. These qualities make up the concept of femininity.
Such a girl evokes in men an irresistible desire to protect and protect her, help in every possible way and constantly take care of her. Next to such a woman, a man feels strong, necessary and able to move mountains. 
It is important to know that femininity is internal and external.
Its external manifestations include:
- Figure. A girl should always watch her diet, go in for sports in order to have a toned figure. No need to strive for thinness or focus on models. A figure resembling an hourglass in silhouette is considered more feminine.
- Hair. Male psychology has long determined that a woman's hair should be long. At the same time, their well-groomed appearance, healthy shine and natural color are appreciated. A girl with a short haircut will be perceived by men simply as “your boyfriend”.
- Makeup. A woman with a natural, neat make-up looks attractive in the eyes of men. Aggressive "combat" coloring on the girl's face makes a repulsive impression.
- Clothing style. Dresses, skirts, flowing materials, shoes with heels are designed to create a feminine image. In clothes, you must adhere to watercolor colors, patterns in the form of peas, flowers and plants.
Inner femininity:
- Emotionality. Sincerity and sensitivity are precisely those qualities in communication with a man, the presence of which in women, they consider mandatory.
- openness. A clear look and a smile on her lips show that their owner is open to communication, she can tell her secrets and feelings.
- Empathy. Sympathy and the ability to listen to the interlocutor make the girl attractive in the eyes of a man.
What to do to become a gentle and elegant girl
Having figured out what femininity is, you can safely proceed to reincarnation and create your own unique look of the desired girl.
This process will consist of three stages: you will have to take care of yourself, adjust your style and revise your behavior. 
Personal care
Glowing skin
In order for the skin to have an attractive appearance, do not forget to take care of it. Wash your face twice a day and wipe your face with lotion or milk. Washing is important because it helps prevent the appearance of completely unaesthetic acne on the face.
If at the age of 14 or 15 their occurrence is due to a hormonal surge, then at a more mature age this is due to a violation of the rules of personal hygiene. Dirt and make-up residues, mixing with the secretion of the sebaceous glands of the skin, cause inflammation of the pores, so acne pops up. 
In the morning and at night, apply a cream suitable for your skin type.
Remember that one of the main culprits of facial skin aging is sunlight. SPF creams should be your constant companions.
Do not forget about the skin of the body. After taking a shower, be sure to use a moisturizer or body milk. Your skin will be soft, tender and velvety
Flawless makeup
For an elegant make-up, you will definitely need a tonal foundation that evens out and emphasizes the beauty of your natural complexion. 
Daytime make-up with pastel shades, mascara and pink blush will make your look flawless.
When applying makeup, you need to be careful and know the measure. Use a cosmetic sponge when applying foundation and fix your makeup with light strokes of a powder puff.
Silk hair shine
How often you wash your hair depends on the type of hair. The main requirement is that the hair should look shiny (not greasy), healthy and well-groomed:
Gentle hands and feet
A woman cannot be called well-groomed if she does not monitor the condition of her hands and feet. Treat yourself to a manicure and pedicure. In the beauty salon, all procedures for turning you into a real lady will be done by professionals. 
But if this is not possible, then tidy up your nails by filing them with a nail file and removing the cuticle. Use a hand cream, and the skin on them will become moisturized and smooth.
Treat your heels with a foot bath and a stiff brush and soften with foot cream.
Pay no less attention to nail polish. To start, choose soft, natural colors, such as lighter shades of pink, beige, lilac, or blue.
Style
Style is something that should give charm to a woman and certainly decorate her. The concept of style includes the manner of dressing, applying makeup, demeanor, and even the choice of perfume.
Clothing style includes dresses and skirts, blouses, and jeans and shoes without heels will be out of place.
It is difficult for women who do not use cosmetics and perfumes to achieve a feminine look. It is important to emphasize your natural beauty and present it in a favorable light.
Jewelry and accessories are of great importance in creating style. Earrings, beads, bracelets will decorate the curves of the neck and arms, add charm to any look. A beautifully tied scarf or neckerchief, an original handbag or clutch can transform a casual, boring look. 
Take the time and effort to become a stylish and graceful woman.
Behavior
- Be charming and nice.
- Become a good conversationalist.
- Get good manners.
- Get rid of harshness, assertiveness and aggressiveness in your behavior.
- Engage in self-development, expand your circle of contacts.
Feminine behavior does not accept narcissism and inflated self-esteem.
Be tolerant even of those whom you consider a loser, because every person deserves a chance.
Don't gossip and keep your promises. A well-bred girl will never be mean and always keeps herself in control. 
How to become feminine
To become feminine, you must first do the most important thing - to love and accept yourself.
accept yourself
A woman is allowed a lot. She can be weak and fragile, or she can be sexy and loved. A woman can be bold and bright, or she can be mysterious and seductive.
The main thing to remember is not to lose yourself and your style. Don't let anyone make fun of you or criticize you evilly. You are who you are. You are unique and inimitable. 
Don't let yourself be remade or manipulated. Do you think it's very difficult? Not if you love yourself.
If you doubt your abilities, then try auto-training. Do not underestimate or be skeptical. Just remember and repeat one phrase: “I am feminine and beautiful”!
Appreciate and develop in yourself what nature has given you. Be happy with your personal charm and charm, the ability to communicate with people, individual beauty.
Love to take care of yourself
To be feminine, you need to constantly work on yourself and, more importantly, love to do it.
Should become a habit:
- Get up early.
- Take time to bring your appearance to perfection: take a shower, put on makeup, do your hair, choose an outfit, shoes and accessories. Do not spare time for yourself, beloved.
- Monitor your health. Special attention pay attention to the condition of the teeth. Your dazzling smile depends on them.
- Do sport. Choose the sport that you like and your figure will become thinner and your movements softer. Proper nutrition, passion for sports will definitely make the girl self-confident.
Cultivate good manners
Try to be graceful:
- Sharp and clumsy movements do not decorate the girl and do not add femininity.
- Shoulders should be straight, keep your head up.
- Do not slouch and hunch over. Sit straight on the chair.
- Move smoothly and gently, let the gait be leisurely and as if flying.
Pay attention to how you behave at the table:
- Do not bite too large pieces and take your time when chewing.
- Remember a little rule - take a bite, count to 20 in your mind, swallow it.
- Beware of eating foods that can stain or stick to you.
Rethink your wardrobe
Changing through your appearance is natural for every woman. A new skirt or shoes appears in the wardrobe, and the woman’s internal state immediately changes, her mood rises.
- To create a feminine wardrobe, you will need dresses and skirts, blouses and blouses.
- Everything should be made of light, flowing material. It can be delicate silk, noble velvet, smooth satin, transparent chiffon and, of course, lace, guipure.
- Stick to soft, pastel colors.
- In a festive outfit, the presence of a neckline and open shoulders is welcome. A miniskirt is not suitable for creating a feminine look, as it has a defiant look.
- And don't forget nice underwear. It is not visible to others, but for your inner mood and self-confidence, it is irreplaceable.
Self-development and self-education
- Always be interested in something new. If you are visiting educational institution then concentrate on your studies. Become more organized, put your study materials in order.
- If you work, try to attend courses advanced training, read additional business literature. Be interested in professional innovations and achievements.
- Visit psychological trainings, choosing the direction that excites you the most.
- Find yourself a hobby.
- Most importantly, read more books. It is books, not magazines and newspapers. The classic works of great writers will develop your refined, refined taste and broaden your horizons.
Develop communication skills
- Chat and spend more time with other women.
- In dealing with people, show sincere interest and benevolence.
- Know how to listen to the interlocutor and show empathy for what he said.
- When communicating, be nice and generous.
- Learn to speak beautifully and well. Correct speech is a great art.
- Read literature on rhetoric and the development of oratory skills in yourself.
follow the speech
A feminine girl never allows herself to swear and scream. A loud voice and a raised tone of conversation is not at all attractive and definitely not feminine.
To smile
Become a bright, happy and cheerful person. You should not laugh all the time, you may be considered not quite mentally healthy.
Give your smile and good mood other people. Don't take yourself too seriously.
Smile and charm those around you. Let everyone around be good from your positive.
- love yourself and believe in your strength;
- show respect for others;
- do not quarrel or argue, especially with men;
- happy to communicate with people;
- review your behavior and speech;
- find yourself an interesting hobby, hobby;
- constantly work on yourself and develop;
- eliminate negativity from your thoughts;
- be happy with yourself and your life.
Video: Concept and development
A feminine, tender girl always arouses in men a natural desire to protect and protect her, take her under her wing and take care of her. Next to a sweet lady in a flying dress and wide-open eyes, a man feels himself the way nature intended him to be - strong, necessary, courageous and ready to take responsibility for the family.
If just such a position in a pair is comfortable for you, you should think about how to best match the image of a feminine, tender and attractive girl.
What does it mean to be feminine externally and internally
A combination of qualities makes a girl feminine - what makes a beautiful lady tender, caring, soft, sensitive. The list includes exactly those qualities that are unique to girls.
Femininity consists of two components - external and internal.
The first impression of a man is always made up of the appearance of the chosen one - a well-groomed face, hair, figure, clothes. It is not necessary to meet model standards - men with a healthy psyche are not attracted to beautiful dolls, individuality is important to them. But you can't launch yourself. The difference between a slightly overweight cheerful girl and the one that launched herself is obvious to everyone.
What do men pay attention to first of all?
- Long hair. A rarity in our time of fashion for short practical haircuts. But if it is possible to grow long hair, take care of it, the attention of men is almost guaranteed.
- Accuracy, courtesy. Clean skin, beautiful hands, a pleasant fresh smell are important components of femininity.
- clothing. All boys in childhood draw girls in dresses. For most of them, this image is firmly fixed in the subconscious, even if the mother never wore a dress. Long hair, a flying skirt, a thin blouse - this is how men imagine the “right” woman.
- Cosmetics. Most men prefer a well-groomed lady, on whom makeup is not visible. But this does not mean that cosmetics should be neglected - it is difficult to achieve a radiant appearance without a little “tuning”.
Femininity through the eyes of men is not only the appearance, but also the behavior and character of the chosen one.
- The ability to listen to the interlocutor, to maintain a conversation. An erudite, well-read girl attracts attention - after all, beauty ceases to impress quickly, and the opportunity to talk and laugh together strengthens relationships and allows them to develop.
- Calmness, tenderness, lack of bitchiness and a tendency to tantrums. The ability to be weak at the right moment, to trust a companion, and not to take the initiative in absolutely all aspects of life.
- Emotionality. The manifestation of emotions - tears, sadness, joy - should be obvious. Emotionality is what separates women from men. The main thing is not to overdo it and not turn into a hysteric.
- Desire to have children and take care of them. This is the natural destiny of a woman.
It is important to quit bad habits. You don't have to give up alcohol completely, but a lady with a cigarette and beer attracts only a certain type of man - this should not be forgotten.
How to always be attractive and elegant
Having figured out what femininity is, you can safely proceed to reincarnation and create your own unique look of the desired girl.
Development will include three stages: self-care, style change and behavior correction.
Personal care
An untidy woman with a greasy bun at the back of her head and in frayed slacks will never look attractive.
A well-groomed woman is a woman with smooth, beautiful skin, clean (if not long) hair, neat makeup and gentle hands.
Glowing skin
At any age, radiant skin depends on your efforts. The percentage of women who naturally have smooth, delicate skin without acne and bumps is negligible. Most of the fair sex has to make daily efforts to get a radiant fresh face.
The skin of the face is most negatively affected by external factors - frost, dry skin, dust and dirt, because the face is not covered with clothes or gloves.
- It is necessary to wash your face twice a day - in adolescence with special gels and foams that correct hormonal balance and prevent the development of acne, in adulthood - with anti-aging agents. If washing is neglected, the dirt clogs the pores, stimulating the appearance of acne, skin irregularities and its visible fat content.
- After washing, be sure to apply a cream - day or night, suitable for age and skin type.
- Three to four times a week in the evenings make face masks - moisturizing, nourishing, tightening - alternating them.
Be sure to walk for at least an hour a day and drink more water - this will increase blood circulation, prevent premature aging of the skin and give radiance from the inside.
Perfect makeup
For everyday daytime makeup, you only need a little foundation that evens out skin tone, mascara and lip gloss.
It is better to save shadows, blush and bright lipstick for evening trips to a restaurant, cafe or concert - they are out of place in the office during the day.
Silk hair shine
The notion that men prefer girls with long hair is a myth. Hair should be clean, but the length depends on your personal preference. Of course, it is more difficult to look feminine with a layered haircut and jeans - but many succeed.
Oily hair needs daily washing, dry hair needs to be washed once or twice a week. Curls should be shiny and well-groomed, therefore:
- use a hair dryer only for complex styling - you should not abuse it in daily care;
- do not burn your hair with tongs, thermal curlers - it is better to use curlers;
- Use a natural bristle brush.
Hair gels and mousses make curls greasy and lifeless - they should be used carefully.
Gentle hands and feet
A woman in an expensive coat and with perfect styling will still look sloppy if she has unkempt, neglected hands. Pamper yourself regularly with manicures and pedicures - in the salon or from a private master.
Even without polish and foundation on the nails, well-groomed hands and feet will look great.
If there is no time to visit a professional, use hand cream on a daily basis, gently file your nails with a nail file, and trim the cuticle.
You need to take care of the legs no less carefully - use baths with sea salt and natural soda to steam the skin, then clean the heels with a stiff brush and use foot cream. This procedure should be done weekly.
Style
Style is everything that gives charm to a woman. This concept includes an external image (clothing, shoes, accessories), proper makeup, behavior, and even what kind of perfume a woman uses.
Clothing style is primarily flying dresses, long skirts, blouses of delicate colors. It's hard for a girl to look feminine in sneakers - although many manage to do this. You can not use cosmetics and perfumes - but without these feminine things it is difficult to look sweet and tender.
Jewelry plays an important role in creating style. Scarves, scarves, bracelets, handbags will perfectly complement the feminine look.
Behavior
In a woman, self-confidence, a sense of self-sufficiency and the absence of pessimism are important. A smiling, joyful girl - even if not a beauty - attracts more glances than "tuned" proud ladies.
Attentive attitude to others, tolerance for the shortcomings of others, the desire to help are important qualities in a real woman.
How to learn to be feminine and gentle
Any change takes time and effort. A few months of work on yourself - and the reflection in the shop windows will delight.
Awareness of a real desire to change the image, style of behavior and habits is the first step to success.
accept yourself
Do not try to become someone else - a TV girl, a neighbor, a distant relative - but to accept yourself with all the flaws and virtues.
Emphasize the merits - it will take effort. Eliminate or accept shortcomings - this will also require work, both external and internal.
Take care of yourself
The habit of taking care of yourself, devoting time to yourself - at least an hour a day - should be developed in three weeks. It is this time that you need to be persistent - otherwise there will be a quick return to the fuss and total lack of time.
It is important to know that a man first looks at the appearance, only then he may be interested in the rich inner world of the chosen one. To look good, it is not necessary to spend a lot of money on salons, it is enough to observe simple rules:
- sleep - 8 to 9 hours a day,
- daily, without missing a day, take care of the face and body,
- keep things clean and tidy
- Go to healthy eating,
- move - at least walk for an hour a day,
- drink plain and mineral water, freshly squeezed juices,
- take care of your teeth and nails.
A fresh, radiant girl with a sparkle in her eyes and a healthy blush will be attractive without makeup and expensive outfits.
Healthy lifestyle
It is not worth bringing yourself to exhaustion with diets and daily workouts - this threatens to disrupt the hormonal system and worsen your appearance.
The best way to stay in shape is to eat right and avoid bad habits(uncontrolled eating of sweet and fatty foods, smoking).
Smoking is the main enemy of femininity. Faded skin, yellow teeth, and bad breath don't exactly make a woman pretty.
Add greens to your diet fresh vegetables, dairy products And try to avoid trans fats and white sugar as much as possible.
Sport is something that gives joy and brings the figure into the desired form. The gym is not the only way out, find the activity you like. Perhaps, as a child, you dreamed of doing ballet, but it didn’t work out - sign up for a group for adult beginners. You are unlikely to appear on the stage of the Bolshoi Theater, but you will quickly get into shape.
If ballet does not suit your temperament, go to yoga, latin, or just walk every day - for an hour in winter and late autumn, 2-3 in summer and spring. The main thing is to exercise regularly, at least twice a week.
Rethink your wardrobe
What things should be removed from the wardrobe when changing the image?
- blouses with a large neckline;
- mini skirts;
- tight leggings;
- skinny jeans that are hard to breathe in;
- any defiant and tasteless things.
A woman in a tight skirt, no doubt, evokes emotions in men - but not at all the ones you are striving to achieve.
A long flying skirt, a thin soft blouse, an unusual bright dress, a heel - all these purely feminine images will make you soft and desirable.
Also be sure to buy nice, comfortable clothes for the house. Stretched sweatpants and a greasy dressing gown should be thrown away, because nothing characterizes a woman so much as how she strives to look alone with herself or in the company of only her closest people.
Change image
With the change of wardrobe comes the realization of what I would like to change in the internal content.
Perhaps you should go to study an exotic language or, for example, change jobs to a radically different one - the one that you dreamed about in your youth. Start drawing, embroider, sew toys. Change your hair and develop your strengths - for example, start singing again, but with a teacher - so that everyone admires the result.
Change behavior style
A woman's speech should be soft, correct, without profanity. The timbre of the voice is calm, relaxed.
Tantrums should be a thing of the past. You need to try to solve all problems calmly, judiciously, offering yourself and others possible options, and not blaming everyone in a row for failures.
Smile and be friendly
A man should know that his woman will always understand, support and help - at least morally.
A sweet, friendly girl, cheerful and cheerful, attracts the right men - ready to protect and protect their soul mate.
Don't imitate anyone
Any attempt to live someone else's life turns into a disaster. A woman must understand what she wants and what she loves - and develop her strengths.
Love yourself
You don't need to "tune" yourself too much. Men get tired of a series of identical women - with extended shocks of blonde hair and pumped lips.
You must always love yourself - and for this you need to devote time and energy to yourself. Dress, educate, properly feed, take to dances - just like you would do with your beloved child.
Don't neglect household chores
Trite, but true - it is the woman who creates comfort in the house and makes a place out of a small apartment that you want to return to in the evenings.
Do not neglect the comfort and cleanliness of the house. A very useful skill is the ability to cook, especially baking - cookies, pancakes, pies and muffins.
Cooking homemade food is very relaxing, it has a calming effect. Do not forget that for many men the best perfume is the smell of freshly brewed borscht or a warm pie from the oven.
The most important thing in changing the image to feminine and gentle is your desire to really make these changes.
To understand what exactly this style - clothes, behavior - suits and makes happy, brings harmony. After realizing it, start working on yourself - with due perseverance, the result of the changes will be noticeable to others in a couple of weeks.
From time immemorial, women have sought to look beautiful and attractive to the opposite sex. For this, various rituals were performed in different cultures. For example, they wore hoops to lengthen the neck or wore tight corsets to make the waist appear thinner. AT different time there were different ideas about beauty, and any modern man has his own concept of a beautiful woman.
But the methods of achieving attractiveness have not changed much. If you want to become attractive, you must understand that it is not enough to be beautiful on the outside, you need to have a rich inner world, natural magnetism and just be feminine.
Attractiveness is a combination of qualities such as:
- love for one's own "I";
- kindness to others;
- sexuality;
- humanity, etc.
What kind of women are considered attractive?
In order to understand, it would be nice to look into their heads. But we can’t do this, but it’s easy to find out exactly what qualities attract them.
Based on numerous surveys and analysis, we have created the image of an ideal woman.
- This is a confident woman.
- She knows how to support any conversation, a pleasant companion.
- In her image there is a certain mystery, zest.
- He dresses in revealing but elegant clothes (not to be confused with vulgarity).
- From it emanates the most pleasant aroma for men. It is the smell of a clean body.
- Such a woman is attractive not only on the outside, but also in her soul.
There are women in whom attractiveness is inherent from birth, or this feeling was instilled in her by her parents from childhood. But there are those who, at a conscious age, do not feel feminine and desirable enough, so they want to correct the situation.
In order to become charming and attractive, one desire is not enough. You have to work hard on yourself. This applies not only to external beauty, but also internal.
Components of female beauty and attractiveness
Before embarking on active actions, we suggest that you figure out what exactly makes a woman attractive in the eyes of men. Thanks to this, you will identify your weaknesses and understand what you need to work on.
So, attractiveness combines:
- the ability to take care of yourself;
- education;
- self-sufficiency;
- knowledge of good manners;
- (just not to be confused with self-confidence);
- optimistic mood and the ability to smile;
- lack of bad habits;
- spiritual beauty.
Perhaps many women will be skeptical of our advice, but then they will probably continue to wallow on the couch, suffer from unrequited love and lament that all men are goats.
If you are ready to act, then read our tips and take action faster.
Take care of yourself and learn how to take care of yourself
We affirm that beauty is not the main thing in a woman, but her inner world. But in order for a man to want to know your soul, you need to interest him and somehow attract him. Your appearance and grooming can help with this.
Not all ladies are distinguished by natural beauty, but due to their well-groomed appearance, they at least do not repel men. But if a woman has a beautiful face, but dirty, gnawed nails with peeling varnish, then a man is unlikely to want to communicate with her.
So spend enough time on your appearance. If you have the means, you can go to a beauty salon, where professionals will carry out all the necessary procedures.
You can take care of yourself at home, using inexpensive cosmetics or homemade masks, creams and lotions.
To find the desired beauty will help:
- healthy sleep at least 7-8 hours a day;
- balanced diet;
- use;
- maintaining hygiene;
- regular cosmetic body and face care;
- neatness;
- active lifestyle.
Try to keep your hair always shining in the sun, the skin on your face was plain, and your nails are well-groomed. Self-care procedures perfectly cheer up and. Treat yourself often and make it a habit.
Never do any procedures with your husband. Let him think that you are beautiful by nature.
Choose the right makeup
Surely every woman will say that I can apply makeup and skip this point. But you can often meet the fair sex, who put on a ton of makeup in the morning, and their image looks defiant.
Attractive woman knows what to zealous with decorative cosmetics no need. Your face should not have a mask of foundation and powder. Everyday makeup should be barely noticeable. It is designed only to emphasize individual details and make your image a little more expressive.
If you are going to a party, then, of course, make-up should be brighter than usual.
To learn all the secrets of applying makeup, you can go to makeup artist courses, or simply watch training videos on the Internet.
Lead a healthy lifestyle, eat right, exercise
Often overweight cause insecurity for many women. Of course, there are men who love curvaceous ladies. But having extra pounds is hard to lead a normal life and look healthy.
Firstly give up bad habits. They kill your beauty. For example, cigarettes cause gray skin on the face, yellow teeth, and bad breath.
Secondly, go to proper nutrition. Forget debilitating diets. Each of them negatively affects the body as a whole. Especially after you “jump” off it, you will quickly gain the lost kilos.
Thirdly love sports and exercise. Life is in motion. Thanks to physical activity, mood rises, health improves and extra kilos “melt”.
A woman should dress elegantly, but not provocatively. Review your wardrobe and throw out too frank and tasteless things.
In order to attract the attention of men, you do not need to wear very short skirts and blouses with a huge neckline. Men should not be shown all the charms of the body at once. You must remain a mystery to him. Wearing such clothes, you will attract attention to yourself, but interest in you is unlikely to last long.
It is better to give preference to elegant things in red, black, white or flesh colors. They are able to inflame a man's interest in you. Moreover, it is always interesting for the opposite sex to imagine what is under a long skirt with a pancake slit than to contemplate bare legs under a miniskirt.
Find your style and stick to this fashion trend. Pay attention to what style of clothes your husband prefers. Try to match him. For example, if your soul mate prefers a business style, then being next to him you should not wear sportswear. It will look ridiculous.
Try to dress well even at home. Replace your outdated bathrobe with a tracksuit. It is convenient, practical and attractive.
Change your look
If we change, then change completely. Many women believe in the statement that with a new hairstyle, a new phase of their life begins. So you go to the hairdresser and experiment on your appearance.
Examine your strengths and tell others less about your shortcomings
Each person has a lot of advantages and strengths. It is important to correctly identify and emphasize them. Very often, girls get hung up on their problems. For example, in certain areas there are extra pounds. But men do not notice them, because they are fascinated by the beauty of the eyes and the depth of the girl's gaze. But the woman stubbornly does not notice the admiring glances and talks about her extra kilos. In this case, men forget about the eyes and pay attention to the shortcomings. Thus, ladies do not attract, but scare away men.
To prevent this from happening, take a piece of paper and write down all the strengths that you have. Try to develop them and do not reveal your shortcomings to anyone.
Learn good manners
An attractive woman should not only take care of her appearance, but also be able to behave in society. With a lady who's trained good manners a man will not be ashamed to appear in public.
Try to learn the basics of etiquette and learn how to maintain a relaxed conversation. This is the minimum that will help you open up to men on the other side.
Read books, expand your horizons
Men always prefer women who combine intelligence and beauty. Strive to expand your horizons, learn something new and amazing every day. The opposite sex quickly gets bored with beautiful dolls without a hint of intelligence. Prove that you are not. After all, beauty attracts for a short time.
Be kind and friendly
The spiritual beauty lies in the fact that a person can empathize and sympathize with another person, he is always open for communication and will gladly come to the rescue in difficult times.
Imagine the situation. You "join" a new company where everyone looks at you with hostility or indifference. No one shows interest in your person, except for one girl who is keenly interested in you, shows respect and offers any help. Surely it is with this girl that you will want to communicate in the future, forgetting about the rest of the negatively inclined people.
In this example, we see that open and friendly people attract the attention of both men and women. So try to be kind to everyone around you.
smile more often
AT Everyday life we forget to smile. But this is the little detail that can transform a woman beyond recognition.
It is more pleasant for each of us to look at smiling people who radiate joy than to see gloomy and eternally dissatisfied personalities.
A smile on a woman's face makes it clear to a man that she is open and ready to communicate. A smiling girl in the eyes of a man looks more attractive and seems comfortable.
Smile more often and people will smile back at you.
Do not throw tantrums and control yourself
Men do not like it when women endlessly make claims to them, complain about life, throw tantrums over trifles. Even if you are smart and beautiful, but regularly "take out the brain" of your loved one, sooner or later he will run away from you.
If your chosen one really constantly gets on your nerves, then think about whether this is the person with whom you want to live your whole life. If you are confident in the correctness of your choice, then learn to control yourself, do not throw tantrums with breaking dishes, but try to resolve everything peacefully by discussing controversial issues.
Be unique and don't imitate anyone
An attractive woman attracts the views of men with her uniqueness and originality. If you blindly imitate some famous person, then hardly anyone will pay attention to you.
The girl must create her image on her own based on her preferences and taste. We rarely notice crowds of identical faceless girls who copy a certain image, and we will definitely highlight a unique personality.
Love yourself and believe in yourself
There is one simple truth: "Until you love yourself, no one else will love you either." But really, if you do not accept yourself with your strengths and weaknesses, then you are unlikely to believe in the sincerity of other people's feelings.
Therefore, in order to become attractive in the eyes of other people, you need to learn to accept and love yourself for who you are. Everyone has a different understanding of beauty. For some, you may not seem too beautiful, but for others, you may become the ideal woman.
Respect yourself and believe in your strengths and then you will definitely see that other people do the same.
All people have their own principles, rules of life, tastes, preferences, ideas about beauty, etc. Therefore, if you want to be charming, feminine and sexy, listen, but do not listen to the opinions of others.
This is your life and your body. Only you have the right to dispose of them. Pay less attention to others and do as your heart tells you.
Be active
Male representatives love it when a woman is active and takes the initiative. Constantly bored ladies remain bored throughout their lives.
If that’s who you are, then it’s time to get out of your comfort zone and take action. For example, when at work they will choose a person who will take up the organization of a corporate party, offer your candidacy. Or being in a nightclub, be the first to invite the guy you like to dance.
Learn how to communicate properly with the opposite sex
Modern men are very scrupulous about the choice of their chosen one. If you have not yet found your soul mate, then you must definitely learn how to behave with the opposite sex.
- Show your interest in a man. Your chosen one should feel your sympathy.
- Learn to listen. Be attentive and interested in what the man tells you, ask questions, delve into the essence of what was said.
- Praise the chosen one. Not only women love with their ears. Men are also pleased to hear from the woman they like about the strengths of his personality.
- Complain less about life. Every person has problems, but not everyone around should know about them. It is better to cry to relatives who will understand and support.
- Don't be afraid to appear weak. Men are rightfully considered the strong sex, and women the weak. Even if you are very Strong woman, do not hesitate to seem weak and defenseless.
Find your passion
Every woman should have a hobby. Watching serials is not an adequate hobby.
Doing what you love, you get pleasure, your mood rises, you realize yourself as a person.
If you find your hobby, then your time will pass productively and you will less “nag” your soul mate on the topic “I have nothing to do” or “You are constantly busy with something but not me.”
Learn to shoot with your eyes
To attract a man's attention to themselves, some women use flirting. Its main technique is an alluring look. Shooting eyes, the ladies make it clear that they are interested in a man.
But the main thing here is not to overdo it. You can’t flirt with everyone indiscriminately and apply it in any situation. Act according to circumstances.
Be mysterious, let others know that you have a zest hidden in you
An attractive woman is desirable because she is unpredictable and full of mysteries that men will want to solve.
In order for others to know about the existence of a raisin, you must adhere to the following rules.
- Create an aura of uncertainty around your image.
- Learn to look into the distance thoughtfully.
- Light up those around you with a smile.
- Wear those things that will emphasize your strengths and hide your flaws. Just do not need to put all the charms on display.
What to do when the interest of men weakens?
Many married women face such a problem as cool feelings. By all means, they want to become attractive to their husband again. This is difficult to do, but possible. The wife will have to change both externally and internally. If you are ready for this, then it's time to learn how to return the lost passion.
The ideal wife in the eyes of men - this is a multifaceted woman who combines several personalities at the same time.
Namely:
- "Sexy thing"- a man should constantly feel your sympathy and love towards him. Shackled and closed in bed, women are doomed to insipid relationships and male infidelity. Read more literature that will allow you to open up sexually, experiment and then you will definitely notice how desirable you are.
- "Cutie"- you should not only be frank in bed, but also be sweet in everyday life. A cutie woman constantly wants to be protected, comforted, groomed and cherished. She exudes warmth and comfort. A sexy little thing without a hint of a cutie quickly bothers a man.
- "Friend"- the key to good marital relations are common interests and similar tastes. A woman should be able to smooth out any conflicts, a man should be comfortable with her, he should understand that she supports him. If you become a friend to your husband, you will notice that he is more willing to take you to various parties and tries to spend every minute with you.
- "Desirable Prey"- even the most jealous men want everyone to look at his woman with admiration and adoration. If the husband realizes that no one notices his wife, then he involuntarily begins to think that something is wrong with his lady. Try to always look beautiful and well-groomed, not forgetting to smile. This will help keep your spouse in good shape.
- "Personality"- Being married, women often plunge headlong into family life and forget that they are a person. Try, no matter what, to do something, earn money, even if your husband fully provides for you. Think about the fact that men look with great desire at active business women and rarely pay attention to tortured housewives.
In addition to the fact that a woman must be multifaceted, she must know what qualities men do not tolerate.
Exterminate in yourself:
- Hysteria;
- bitchiness;
- sullenness;
- deceitfulness;
- Infidelity;
- Frigidity;
- Crooked hand;
- grumpiness;
- Anger;
- boredom;
- Craving for the spread of gossip;
- Anger.
If you apply your knowledge wisely, you will always look attractive in the eyes of your chosen one.
Qualities of an attractive woman: the view of a psychologist
Sometimes with the question “How to become the most attractive for men?” Women come to psychologists. Experts in this area advise women to develop the following qualities:
- Brightness of the image and liveliness of feelings . A woman should be bright. This is what fascinates men and attracts them like a magnet. Such ladies seem open and cheerful. But it is important for everyone to know the measure and not to overdo it with brightness.
- success . A woman should not completely dissolve in a man. Despite everything, she must find herself in this world and realize herself as a person. But be careful and try not to overshadow the man with your success. They like to be in charge, so let them feel like a leader. Successful ladies attract successful men, don't be surprised if you have working class men in your life.
- bitchiness. At the beginning of a relationship, a woman's bitchiness is her highlight, which attracts men. But men are not ready to face a bitch every day, therefore this quality needs to be brought up in oneself, but to know exactly when to apply it.
- Femininity and softness . With the help of these qualities, women activate the abilities of men related to their competence, strength, intelligence and providing the necessary level of protection.
Conclusion
Modern men are very spoiled by female accessibility and attention. Therefore, ladies, in order to always be attractive, have to innovate, constantly develop and improve.
To be attractive means to be beautiful on the outside as well as on the inside. In order for men to desire you, love yourself, find your place in life, develop and improve. And then you will feel the enthusiastic looks of not only men, but also women!
Practical advice from a charisma coach on how to attract a man to you.
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Today, I want to talk to you about what real beauty is. Beautiful models with perfect shapes are watching us from TV screens. in social networks whole communities are being created about how to be beautiful. But no matter how much we live on this beautiful planet, no one has ever been able to explain what this beauty is. A large number of women come to me complaining about their appearance, not realizing that they are already so beautiful. I believe that the nature of our uniqueness with you creates our life path. If, say, the girl Yana is well built in herself, but does not consider herself attractive, this does not mean at all that young people will line up to get her attention. She will not attract them in the same way that the laughing and naturally plump Marina does. As an esotericist, I am well aware of cases when, let's say, an unattractive-looking girl achieved stunning success with guys, leaving beauties as outsiders.How to become more attractive to men?
I decided to share some tips that will help you feel like yourself in the company of an interesting man. I'll write it down step by step. Step one: self confidence. Everyone knows how important this is. Self-confidence is a beautiful walk, a straight look and a slight smile on your face. Step two: image change. Those who have already communicated with me personally know that I am always for change! If you do not find yourself attractive, entrust yourself to stylists. Step three: awakening of sexual energy. Of course, the third step is directly related to our energy, chakras, if you will. There are ways to awaken this energy, my clients love them very much. I will gladly share them with you!Opening the female chakra
It is necessary to work with the chakra called "Muladhara". We need a rose quartz sphere and ylang ylang oil. Put 4 drops of oil into the aroma lamp, wait until the aroma appears. Then make ten deep entries. Place Rose Quartz on your stomach in the area of the uterus, relax and breathe calmly. Just 15 minutes a day and you will feel better, more confident and sexier.Strengthening female attractiveness with the help of the moon
There is another way, this ritual is done on the full moon. At night, when the moon is clearly visible, place a crystal vessel of water on the window. Let it reflect the light of the moon. At the bottom of the vessel, place a red ribbon tied with three knots. The first node is beauty, the second node is charisma, the third node is confidence. When tying knots, say the following: “By tying this knot, I am firmly connecting myself with natural beauty and attractiveness; I want to be liked by others. By tying this knot, I associate myself with charisma, easy disposition and affability. Let people see me as a good conversationalist. By tying a knot, I firmly bind myself and confidence into one, one. I want others to appreciate me, know my value and rejoice in my small victories. Wash your face with this water every morning until the next full moon. Then repeat the ritual. You can use this ritual for as long as you see fit.Talisman to attract the ideal husband
In conclusion, I want to tell you about the talisman of love that will bring into your life right person. Since I am a specialist in talismans, I know perfectly well what kind of power it can give to its owner, if he wants to. I will tell you how to make a talisman for yourself. Let's divide them into several groups: Fire, Water, Earth and Air.This publication will be of particular interest to men who have not yet found the lady of their hearts. In order for a potential chosen one to pay attention to you, you need to know some behavioral features. You will also get acquainted with the preferences of women when choosing a gentleman.
1. Notice Universal Flirting Signals
You will never be refused to continue dating if you learn to recognize the signals of female flirting. Psychologists say that women's interest manifests itself equally in a Parisian cafe and in the depths of the Amazon. Women don't learn flirting signals, they absorb these skills with their mother's milk. If a lady smiles at a fan, then quickly raises her eyebrows and opens her eyes wide, then she is showing genuine sexual interest. Further, the procedure is as follows: the girl lowers her eyelids, tilts her head down and slightly to the side. Very often, this behavior is accompanied by a nervous giggle. At the same time, hands can cover the face from embarrassment.
2. Pay attention to the girls in "your league"
Most often, people look for a companion according to the degree of their own attractiveness. Researchers from the University of California at Barkley uncovered a curious detail when they observed the behavior of 60 men and women looking for a romantic partner on a dating site. Most people liked the physical beauty of the opposite sex. 
However, when it came to dating, they sent a request to a person approximately equal in terms of attractiveness. Psychologists explain this by saying that people intuitively do not want to be rejected. If the person looks much better than you, you are afraid of being rejected. If it's less pretty, you're worried that it's not a good choice.
3. High status person
Women are attracted not by the appearance of men, but by the degree of their wealth. In one recent experiment, women were asked to rate a young man's appearance from a photo. 
The men photographed next to a silver Bentley Continental looked preferable to the participants than those photographed in front of a Ford Fiesta. The same conclusions can be drawn regarding luxury apartments and an ordinary apartment as a background in the picture. This is not the fault of ladies' commercialism, but evolution.
4. Look a little older
It turns out that young women often prefer to choose a partner older than themselves. This is especially true for girls who are financially independent. Evolutionary psychologists tend to believe that the secret lies in women's shorter reproductive cycles. Men, unlike beautiful young ladies, can reproduce at any age.
